Sunday, May 13, 2007

Happy Mothers Day Mum!




Mothers Day... What a great opportunity to celebrate the ladies who nurtured us throughout our formative years! My mother is a special lady to me. Now I emphasize "to me" since I have no doubt that all of the mothers here in "blogland" are special to their children as well and I would hate to be accused of insinuating that my mother is the only special mother around because she certainly is not. I want to congratulate each of you mothers here in “blogland” who have spent a major part of your lives raising children with the utmost love and dedication.

M now my mother’s name is Pamela. Her friends called her Pam, my father sometimes called her Pammy while my sister and I called her Mum. If I were to describe her, it would go like this. She is a meek lady with a heart of gold. A very religious lady, who believes that when she dies, she will go to heaven because she takes the Bible literally where it says that "For God so loved the world that he gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish but have eternal life." (John 3:16) She is the most sincere individual whom I have ever known and the least hypocritical. There were times when I thought that she may have been overly "religious" and yet it never bothered me since she was a lady who always walked the walk and talked the talk. Maybe the “overly religiousness” that I thought I saw was nothing but the realization of my lack of living the Christian life that I should have lived.

She was a dedicated mother who strove to teach me true Christian values. Though I never quite got that part of my life right, I have never wavered in the beliefs that she taught me throughout my childhood. My mother spent as much time teaching me through her actions as she did her words. Maybe one day I can get my actions on track and then maybe, just maybe, I could practice what I preach just like her.

My mother has had a rough life. She spent many an hour asking God for strength to get here through her trails and tribulations. She sacrificed much of her life looking out for us kids, making sure were clean, well dressed, well fed, educated and prepared for our future. I am sure that there were things in her personal life that she would have liked to have accomplished other than wiping my snotty nose and yet she shelved much of that out of love for my sister and me.

My mother is now into the later stages of life and, like most people in their twilight years, is frail and in need of care... Now that's where I come in. My mother now needs me and I am there... not because it is my duty but because it is now my turn to repay the time that she invested in my life for without her investment in me, I would not be the man that I now am.

So Mum, I hope I can one day measure up to the person that you are! Thanks for your love, thanks for your dedication and just plain "thanks" for each and every minute that you invested into my life! I love you Mum!

Happy Mothers Day!

16 comments:

Lone Grey Squirrel said...

Hope you had a great Mother's Day with your mom.

Good to have you back. You have been missed.

Josie said...

Dave, your Mom is lucky to have such a wonderful, devoted son. And you have the right attitude towards her, not duty but love. It's wonderful.

I wasn't able to open the video, drat.

Cheers,
Josie

Hammer said...

Very nice sentiment :) She raised a good one

Janice Thomson said...

A loving tribute to your dear Mom Dave and such a joy to read.

Becky Wolfe said...

Beautiful Dave! Sounds like you have a wonderful mother who has a wonderful son.

Cheryl said...

What I liked most about your post was the appreciation you've always had for your mother. I hope when my daughter is grown she'll feel the same way about me, and care for me the way I care for my mother.

patterns of ink said...

There's nothing like a mother's prayers and direction. Nice post.

abbagirl74 said...

Wonderful post. Nice to see you return dear friend.

CS said...

That's a lovely tribute to your mother, Dave.

Proxima said...

Very sweet Dave! She should be very proud of you I think.

FYI
video did not work for me either.

Take Care,
-P

Becky Wolfe said...

Hey Dave,

Just checkin in! Hope you're doin ok this week! Gone for any photo walks lately?

Hope all is well!

Becky

abbagirl74 said...

Hello? Are you there? We miss you!

Janet Jeyapaul said...

What a splendid tribute to a Mom - remembering all the too often taken for granted attributes of a loving Mom .She must be proud of a great son

jj

Proxima said...

Yes, it's been awhile since we've heard from you. I hope that you have just been busy and that things are ok for you and your family.

Take Care,
-P

Sunil Parmar said...

Hello Dave,
How are you?
How's life at your end?
It has been a long time na?
My apologies for the disappearance.:)
It's great to be back here.

A mother's love is the best & purest form love & your mother is one of the testaments of this. The good thing is that you are a good son. :)~ I'm sure your mother might be proud of you.

Happiness & success to you.
Take Care.

HeiressChild said...

what an absolutely beautiful tribute to your Mother dave.